Parenting teenagers is like…
…trying to figure out social media algorithms. Each child needs a different approach – and something changes once you think you’ve figured it out.
You have checked out one of the million parenting books. Everyone seems to have the answer, yet nothing seems to work. The idea of reading another book, listening to a podcast, or hearing another friend talking about “what works for them” is frustrating.
Someone has probably said, “You just need to love your child.” Not to be rude, but obviously, you need to love your children. If loving your child more was the answer, things would have already shifted. And… you would not be reading this right now. You love your kids more than anyone can imagine.
What haven’t you tried???
You have tried being more strict cause that was supposed to work. Then you tried being more flexible, listening, and giving your child more space. That didn’t go as planned, either. Then following the guru’s advice, you limit phone use, social media, and online access.
What works with one of your kids does not seem to work with the other. Any attempt to “solve” the problem just seems to make it worse.
It feels like you are constantly “on,” trying to prevent or put out one fire or another. The overwhelming feeling of helplessness is real.
The “how-to” manual does not exist.
If there were a how-to manual, you would have written it.
Hacking away at the branches (symptoms) of a “problem” while the root issues go unresolved is not a game we will play.
I provide coaching for parents of adolescents 15+ and young adults. We will take the time to assess the roots thoroughly when you step into my office.
As parents, you will be listened to with empathy. Therapy will be a space where, as a guide (that is me, the therapist), we will navigate hard conversations with openness and honesty.
There is a pathway forward, no matter the underlying issues; i.e., trauma, divorce, addiction, neurodiversity, behavioral difficulties, etc.
We will develop a customized strategy. You will know we have the right plan because you will feel I understand you and your child.
Things will not be all unicorns and rainbows.
To change will require intentional and consistent work as you gain new insights, adjust your approach, feel confident in setting boundaries with clear expectations, and develop new communication tools.
The last five chapters of interactions don’t dictate the next page. The next page has yet to be written.
Don’t stay stuck in the same cycle. Schedule a free consultation today.